Some places don’t really need much description — you just feel them straight away. Guardias Viejas on a May morning: the sea stretches out vast and calm, the air smells of salt and warm stone, and on the lawn right by the water stands a golden arch full of pampas grass. This is exactly where Hazel and Ben got married.The couple travelled from London to get married in Andalusia — and they were blessed with a day that could hardly have been more relaxed, sunnier or happier. A destination wedding in Andalusia, just the way I love it: feeling barefoot, with the sea behind you, and a genuine zest for life all around. Let me tell you all about it. Welcome-Schild mit Palme und Pampasgras am Eingang, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien
Welcome-Schild und Sitzplan mit Boho-Trockenblumen-Deko, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien

The Morning — Getting Ready with the sea on my doorstep

It all started very calmly. Hazel was doing her make-up, the lighting was soft, and her girlfriends were gathered around her. There are those moments in the morning when the excitement is still subdued — a bit of a flutter, lots of laughter, perhaps the first glass of champagne.

Braut beim Getting Ready und Make-up, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

Her bridesmaids in champagne-coloured satin gowns, with the words ‘Bride’ and ‘Bridesmaid’ written on the back. It’s little details like these that make the morning special. And then there’s the moment when the dress arrives: delicate lace, long sleeves, lots of helping hands.

Braut mit ihren Brautjungfern in champagnerfarbenen Robes, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit
Brautjungfern in Satin-Robes mit Bride-Schriftzug, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien
Braut wird ins Spitzenkleid geholfen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit Andalusien

Whilst Hazel was getting ready, Ben was looking after his little crew. The way he was tucking in one of the lads’ suits — such a calm, genuine moment. This is the sort of wedding where everyone’s just there, not just as guests.

Braeutigam hilft kleinem Jungen mit dem Anzug, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien

Boho right down to the last detail

The décor was one big celebration of natural elegance. Pampas grass in shades of sand and gold, dried white flowers, wheat, rattan lanterns, bamboo chairs. Nothing looked contrived — everything blended perfectly with the light, the stone and the sea.

Aperitivo-Bereich mit Bambustischen und Boho-Deko, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

Before the ceremony, rows of chairs stood on the lawn, with nothing but the horizon behind them. In the centre aisle, small clumps of pampas grass swayed in the wind. Sometimes a place doesn’t need much at all — just the right thing in the right spot.

Stuhlreihen der Zeremonie mit Meerblick, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit
Mittelgang mit Pampasgras-Deko, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

The ceremony — with the horizon as best man

Then Hazel arrived. Walking down the aisle, the sea ahead of her, her loved ones on either side. It fell silent, the kind of silence that only comes when everyone knows: this is it.

Einzug der Braut zur Zeremonie, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Freie Trauung mit Meerblick, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit Andalusien

The bridesmaids with their bouquets of dried flowers, all dressed in white and beige. Hazel and Ben beneath the pampas grass arch, with the sun at their backs, the promise in their eyes. No rigid ceremony, but a relaxed wedding that reflected the couple’s personalities.

Brautjungfern mit Trockenblumen-Strauessen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit
Brautpaar beim Eheversprechen unter dem Pampas-Traubogen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

The moment — first kiss in rainbow colours

And then that moment, which I won’t forget in a hurry. First, the kiss under the arch. Then a sip from the porrón — typically Spanish, a bit silly, absolutely lovely.

Erster Kuss unter dem Pampas-Traubogen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit
Brautpaar trinkt aus dem Porron bei der Zeremonie, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

And finally: a shower of rainbow-coloured powder raining down on the bride and groom. Brightly coloured, loud, full of jubilation. That’s exactly why I love this job — for couples who dare to celebrate their big day in style.

Erster Kuss mit Regenbogen-Farbpulver, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit in Andalusien
Auszug des Brautpaars im Konfettiregen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Brautstrauss aus weissen Rosen und Trockenblumen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit

Aperitif — Salmorejo, sax and parasols

After the wedding ceremony, we moved straight on to the most relaxed part of the day. Chilled salmorejo shots, guests under striped parasols, a saxophonist who bathed the afternoon in golden light. Palm trees, fairy lights, and the sea always in the background.

Salmorejo-Shots beim Aperitivo, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien
Gaeste beim Aperitivo unter Sonnenschirmen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Saxofonist beim Aperitivo, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit
Location mit Palmen und Meerblick, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

The Girls & the Flowers

Hazel with her bridesmaids in flowing champagne-coloured dresses — and these five bouquets side by side, all made of dried flowers, wheat and white roses. I think this really shows just how well thought-out the whole look was.

Braut mit Brautjungfern in Champagner-Kleidern, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit
Trockenblumen-Strauesse im Detail, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit

Dinner at Golden Hour

As the sun sank lower, it became even more beautiful. Long white tables and round tables, huge pampas grass arrangements, the sea behind them bathed in warm light. On every plate, a little piece of Andalusia: olive oil from the region as a gift for guests, with ‘Thank you’ written by hand.

Festtafel mit Pampasgras und Meerblick, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien
Runde Dinner-Tische mit Meerblick, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Tischdeko und Gedeck im Boho-Stil, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit
Tischdeko mit weissen Rosen und Pampasgras, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

Ben’s speech had everyone alternately laughing and swallowing hard. Moments like that over dinner — when words falter and the glass trembles — are often the most genuine of the whole day.

Gastgeschenk Olivenoel aus Almeria, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Braeutigam haelt seine Rede beim Dinner, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit

Just the two of them — the portraits

In between, Hazel and Ben slipped away for a moment. Golden hour amongst bougainvillea and olive trees, the lace dress silhouetted against the light, lots of closeness, lots of laughter. I wish every couple could enjoy these quiet moments together — just the two of them, for a brief moment, amidst the hustle and bustle.

Brautpaar-Portrait in der Golden Hour, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien
Braut im Spitzenkleid von hinten im Garten, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit
Brautpaar-Portrait an der Holztuer, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Braeutigam hebt die Braut vor Bougainvillea, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit
Spitzen-Detail am Ruecken des Brautkleids, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

Party — cake, first dance and lots of laughter

Inside, the cake was waiting: sage-green and white, with gold and eucalyptus in a wreath, and ‘Mr & Mrs Grundman’ on top. Then came the first dance, the cutting of the cake, and after that, there was no stopping us.

Hochzeitstorte im Eukalyptus-Reifen, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Hochzeit
Erster Tanz des Brautpaars, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Strandhochzeit Andalusien
Tortenanschnitt des Brautpaars, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Destination Wedding Andalusien

In the end, this was the image that stayed with me: Hazel and Ben, laughing, nestled against each other, completely lost in the moment. That’s all a wedding day needs.

Brautpaar lacht ausgelassen auf der Party, El Paraiso al Mar Guardias Viejas, Boho-Strandhochzeit in Andalusien

What remains

Hazel and Ben’s day was everything couples come to Andalusia for: the sea, the light, the laid-back atmosphere — and the feeling of simply being able to let go. No rigid schedule, no stress. Just a day that was a perfect reflection of the two of them.

Do you also dream of a destination wedding in Andalusia — boho, on the beach, completely relaxed? Then let’s have a chat. Tell me about yourselves via my contact page, and we’ll work out together what your day by the sea could look like.

  • CreditsPlanning & Decoration: Ambrosia Wedding
  • Venue: El Paraiso al Mar, Guardias Viejas (Almería)
  • Photography: Eloy Muñoz

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